Outer Banks, North Carolina

The Outer Banks of the Carolina Coastline

Nestled along the picturesque coastline, the Outer Banks emerge as an idyllic haven for those of us seeking solace and rejuvenation. With its pristine beaches, serene landscapes, and tranquil ambiance, this region presents itself as the perfect setting for our healing retreat. The gentle ebb and flow of the waves against the sandy shores offer a soothing space for healing, while the crisp sea breeze carries with it a sense of renewal. The Outer Banks' remote and unspoiled beauty serves as a sanctuary, far removed from the hustle and bustle of everyday life, allowing us to disconnect from daily stressors, and reconnect with ourselves and each other.

The Outer Banks' innate charm is unique for its diverse range of healing environments. From tranquil coves to expansive beaches (offering peaceful sunrise and sunset moments), every corner of this coastal paradise offers a unique backdrop for reflection and healing. The local flora and fauna offer an enriching connection to nature, fostering a sense of grounding and connection to our inner selves.

Combined with the Paisley Project community support, activities, and healthy, prepared cuisine, this retreat in the Outer Banks of North Carolina is an immersive experience that nurtures both the body and the soul, offering a sanctuary for healing, growth, and transformation.

Who is invited to attend?

All widows, whether they are new to the Paisley Project, or have been involved before, are invited!

Retreat Overview

The lodgings, cozy and welcoming, provide a peaceful haven for each woman. In addition to the soothing ambiance, we will offer 70-minute full body massages to melt away tension and promote holistic well-being.

Our retreat's dining experiences have been carefully curated, drawing from locally sourced ingredients. These nourishing meals often become an opportunity for widows to forge connections over delicious dishes, fostering a sense of community and support. Each meal is a testament to our commitment for healing from the inside, out.

Each day, you will choose among many activities available to you, from viewing wild mustangs, creating art, working through a puzzle with friends, or simply enjoying the view from the hot tub. This retreat is for you, so you have the power to choose what feels right.

Welcome to the Persimmon House

All women will fly into Norfolk, Virginia at the beginning of the retreat. We will meet at the airport and travel in a rental vehicle shared by our group. There is also an option to use a shuttle service to accommodate all travel schedules. We'll then head to our new home.

Once you arrive, you will either take your own scheduled transportation, or join the group to head to the Persimmon House and choose your sleeping arrangements! Karyl will help with the planning.

At the end of our time together, we'll return to the airport to fly out of Norfolk, Virginia. All itineraries for travel can be accommodated (the airport is a 1-hour and 45-minute drive from our house).

Trip Highlights

This retreat is designed to have something for everyone, no matter what healing looks or feels like to you.

Our delicious, chef-created meals will be a cornerstone of healing, providing our bodies with the essential nutrients required for overall well-being.

PRIVATE HEALING MASSAGE

Talented Paisley Project member, Cindy, will be offering longer, private full-body massages as well as shorter massages that allow us to mingle while we relax.

ART THERAPY AND HOME ACTIVITIES

We always keep a good puzzle on the table, in addition to offering other, therapeutic art-centered activities for every skill level.

HOT TUB AND SAUNA ON LOCATION

You won't have to go far for a spa-like experience, because a hot tub and sauna are available at the Persimmon House for our use, any time it feels right.

A COASTAL VILLAGE TO EXPLORE

Renowned for its charming historic district featuring iconic structures such as the Currituck Beach Lighthouse, Corolla Village offers shopping, sight-seeing, and an exploration of coastal history.

Why Retreats are Magic for Healing

The peace and tranquility of nature offers respite from the stressors of modern life, leading to improved mental and physical health, even better sleep.

Quality time with community and nature is more than a vacation or a luxury — it's what humans need to heal, survive, and thrive.

Science has substantiated the profound role of community, nature experiences, and restorative retreats in aiding the healing process after loss.

Social support from communities, friends, or support groups fosters emotional connection, diminishing feelings of isolation and invoking the release of mood-enhancing neurotransmitters.

Nature experiences offer therapeutic benefits, reducing stress and depression by harnessing our innate affinity for the natural world, promoting introspection and emotional solace. Restorative retreats, whether nature-based or centered on therapeutic activities, provide dedicated time for healing, allowing participants to temporarily disengage from daily demands, fostering relaxation, self-awareness, and communal support.

Research affirms that all of these factors, combined, contribute significantly to a comprehensive healing journey for those grappling with loss—in this case, specifically for women coping with the loss of their spouse.

Trip Cost Breakdown

WHAT'S INCLUDED

• Lodging

• Massage

• All Meals

• Wine, Sparkling Water, and Soda

• Art Therapy / Journaling

• Hot Tub, Sauna, and Pool

• Beachfront Access

OPTIONAL EXTRAS

Shopping and dining in town

Wright Brothers Museum visit

Historic lighthouse tours

Private wild mustang viewing tours

Next Steps

Please sign up on the Paisley Project website. We are limited to 12 spots for this retreat. These are on a first come, first serve basis.

Once you get in touch, Paisley Project staff will work with you to arrange your payment and reservations.

Once you've booked your spot with Paisley Project, it's time to get your tickets for travel and arrange any additional activities you would like to do once you're there!

Take a look at the visitor's site for the Historic Corolla Village to get some inspiration and discover what tours you might like to book!